"Little by little we grow up, it's hard. Most people don't grow up, they just get older." -Maya Angelou
Growing up is hard, it's uncomfortable because each phase of your life is new, unfamiliar and ever changing. And change like we all know is the hardest. All of us have come to terms with too much pain, although we repress it it's still there. The worst is that of not being wanted, of realising your parents do not need you in the way that you need them.
MISTAKES are meant to happen once and only once, more than that then that was not a mistake but a choice. Mistakes aren't made to make you feel less of a good person but there to assist you in making better decisions. It wouldn't be easy to understand yourself without making a few mistakes in your life. Plus they help you grow.
FRIENDS you can truly and honestly live without them, if you've been burnt once don't be too trusting. They can disappoint you so the best, most loyal, and one person you can depend on is truly yourself. Don't invest to much when it comes to friendships. Each person that comes into your life is there to serve a purpose, whether it's short or long-term take the good that they choose to show you because really in the end we will all outgrow each other at some point.
LOVE yourself first and others after because loving yourself means having an understanding of yourself that allows you to show your confidence to the world.
HAPPINESS is a choice so for each and every morning that you wake up choose to be happy, choose to smile and share positivity.
LIFE will never make sense if you aren’t InTouch with your spirituality, whether we like it or not we must agree to the fact that we are spiritual beings and if we are not connected to our spirituality we will forever linger without ever being satisfied. We will always seek more than what already exists in the physical but when we are content and InTouch with our spirituality we will forever be happy.
For each and every one of us in life we have a turn back moment, either you move forward or you give up but before you give up you should always keep in mind that the only guarantee about giving up is that it will never happen, no way under the sun.
So whatever it is that you do in life, don’t give up because Uzoba ngumthwalo kabani? 🤔🤔
